Aap sabhi jaante hi hain ki tasveerein khinchwane ka ya apni tasveer banwane
ka prachalan sadiyon se chala aa raha hai. Iske peeche ka manovigyan bhi yahi
hai ki har vyakti khoobsurat dikhna chahta hai aur apni khoobsurat tasveer
dekhkar gaurav aur prasannata ka anubhav karta hai.
Waqt badalta gaya. Pehle jahan ek photo lene mein bahut samay lagta tha, aaj
technology ke yug mein wahi kaam kuch seconds mein ho jaata hai. Pehle jahan
kisi vyakti ki photo koi aur leta tha, ab vyakti khud apni photo leta hai, jise
hum selfie ke naam se jaante hain.
Aaj-kal aap jahan dekhiye, wahaan selfie ka bolbaala hai. Chahe koi party
ho, school, college, park, picnic spot, railway station, road ya koi tourist
destination—selfie word ne jaise poori duniya ko apne aagosh mein le liya hai.
Lekin kya aap jaante hain ki logon ke baar-baar selfie lene ke peeche ka
psychology kya hota hai?
Aaiye samajhte hain ki selfie lene ke peeche kya psychological factors ho
sakte hain:
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Jab koi vyakti selfie lekar use dekhta hai, toh
achhi photo use self-confidence ka feeling de sakti hai.
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Selfie lene wale vyakti mein kabhi-kabhi self-esteem
ya apne appearance ko lekar positive feeling badh sakti hai.
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Log apni selfie ko attractive samajhna aur
doosron se appreciation paana pasand karte hain.
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Aise logon mein khud ko khoobsurat dikhane ki
strong desire ho sakti hai.
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Kuch log selfie ke through doosron par apna
influence ya impression banane ki koshish karte hain.
Lekin selfie lena apne aap mein koi mental disorder nahi hai. Problem tab ho
sakti hai jab selfie-taking behaviour excessive, compulsive ho
jaaye aur daily life, relationships ya emotional well-being ko affect karne lage.
Kabhi-kabhi log attractive ya adventurous selfie lene ke chakkar mein risky
situations mein chale jaate hain. Jaise moving vehicles, high places, railway
tracks, cliffs ya dangerous locations par selfie lena.
Aise cases mein accident ka risk badh sakta hai. Isliye kisi bhi photo ya
social-media post se zyada important personal safety hai.
Social media aur selfie culture ke context mein “Selfitis” shabd
ka use excessive selfie-taking behaviour ko describe karne ke liye kiya gaya
hai. Lekin ise officially recognized psychiatric disorder samajhna sahi nahi
hai.
Online articles mein “Selfitis” ko kabhi-kabhi ek mental disorder ke roop
mein present kiya jaata hai, lekin is claim ko scientific evidence ke context
mein carefully samajhna zaroori hai.
Excessive selfie-taking ke peeche attention-seeking, social approval ki
need, body-image concerns, low self-esteem, insecurity ya compulsive
social-media use jaise factors ho sakte hain. Lekin har person ke behaviour ke
peeche reason alag ho sakta hai.
Jab koi vyakti baar-baar apni selfie social media par share karta hai aur
likes, comments aur reactions ka intezaar karta hai, toh uski emotional state
kabhi-kabhi online feedback se influence ho sakti hai.
Agar kisi post par expected likes ya comments nahi milte, toh kuch log
disappointment, insecurity ya inferiority ki feeling experience kar sakte hain.
Isliye apni self-worth ko sirf likes, comments aur social-media
validation se measure karna healthy approach nahi hai.
Is behaviour ko balanced rakhne ka simple tareeka hai ki apni life mein
social media ke alawa bhi bahut saari meaningful activities ko importance dein.
Apne interests ko explore karein, books padhein, physical activities karein,
family aur friends ke saath quality time spend karein aur apni skills ko
develop karein.
Agar aap selfie ko social media par post karte hain, toh use immediately
upload karne ke bajay kuch samay apne phone mein rakh sakte hain. Baad mein
decide karein ki kya ise post karna really necessary hai.
Isse impulsive posting ki habit ko control karne mein help mil sakti hai.
Aur ek zaroori baat—apne appearance ke saath-saath apne qualities
aur personality ko bhi value karein, kyunki aapki pehchaan sirf ek
photo se nahi hoti. Aapke skills, values, behaviour aur character hi aapke
future ko shape karte hain.