- 18 Nov 2025
- Psy. Ashish Pandey
Should Parents Be Friendly with Their Child?
Parents ko apne bachon ke saath friendly relationship rakhna
chahiye, taaki bachche apne mann ki har baat khulkar share kar sakein. Agar
bachon se koi Galati ho jaaye, toh parents ko na unhe daantna chahiye aur na hi
dhamkana chahiye. Iske bajaye, unhe pyaar se samjhana chahiye ya calmly sahi behaviour
batana chahiye, taaki woh Galati dobara Na ho."
"Parents ko chahiye ki woh apne bachon ke weak points ko
pyaar se samjhayen, unhe sudharne mein help karein, aur unki feelings ko
samjhein. Bachon ko sabke saamne insult nahi karna chahiye, balki unki baaton
ko seriously lena chahiye, taaki woh koi galat kadam na uthaye. In sab cheezon
se bachon ko depression mein jaane se bachaya jaa sakta hai. Agar zarurat ho,
toh ek psychologist ki help leni chahiye, taaki bachche apni baatein khulkar
share kar sakein."
"Parents ko bhi guidance milni chahiye taaki woh samajh
sakein ki bachon se kaise deal karna hai, aur aaj-kal jo suicide cases badh
rahe hain unhe rokne mein madad mil sake. Parents ko bachon par zyada pressure
nahi daalna chahiye, na hi unhe har jagah jaane se rokna chahiye. Unhe
expectations bhi kam rakhni chahiye. Bachon ke saath quality time spend karna
chahiye, taaki unhe kabhi akela feel na ho. Agar bachcha kahin akela jaa raha
ho, toh unhe timely call karte rehna chahiye, taaki unhe mehsoos ho ki aap unke
saath ho."
"Aaj-kal
academic pressure bhi bahut badh raha hai, isliye parents ko chahiye ki woh
bachon ko support karein, unhe discourage na karein. Hamesha unka saath de,
taaki woh aage badh sakein aur life mein kuch ban sakein. Bachon ka utsah
badhate rehna chahiye—jaise kehna, 'You can do it!'—taaki unka
confidence strong bane.
Jab parent’s’ aur
bachon ke beech understanding badhegi, tab dono khush rahenge aur bachche ek
ache insan ban paayenge. Isi tarah woh aane wali peedhi ko bhi kuch accha
sikhha paayenge. Bachon ko har kaam karne ke liye abhi se strong banana
chahiye, isse parents aur bachon ke beech pyaar aur bond dono mazboot hote
hain.
"Agar aap
apne bachon ke saath friendly nahi rahenge, toh woh apne saath ho rahe kisi bhi
galat kaam ko aapse share nahi karenge. Unhe darr lagega ki aap unhi ko blame
karenge, isi wajah se woh apne mann ki baatein batane se bhi ghabraayenge.
Aaj kal to na
ladke safe hain, na ladkiyan — dono ke liye hi risks badh gaye hain. Isliye
parents ko chahiye ki woh apne bachon ko har situation ke liye mentally tayyar
karein. Yeh tabhi possible hai jab aap unhe samjhenge aur unke saath friendly
rahenge. Tabhi bachche apne saath ho rahi achhi-buri har baat aapse bina dare
share kar paayenge.
Isliye
parents ko apne bachon ke saath friendly rehna bahut zaruri hai.
Dhanyavaad."